Today I saw a piece of news on the internet. A woman complained that her husband gave his parents ten thousand dollars as money for being filial every month. She was not happy about it because she thought ten thousand dollars were too much for his parents.
I think her husband has done it before getting married, and he does not change this habit after getting married. If the woman is not happy about his habit, she should let her husband know it before getting married. If her husband does not want to change his habit and she cannot accept it, both sides should consider looking for another person as their spouses.
There are quite a lot of things needing being known before getting married. If there is something both sides cannot reach agreement, they should try to settle it before getting married. If not, marriage is more often than not the tomb of love.
Marriage could lead to romance and happiness and it could be the beginning of love. To reach this goal, it needs quite a lot of efforts to settle quite a lot of dissensions before getting married.