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篇名: 日本中年男有四分之一是處男
作者: 鍋裏翻貓 日期: 2015.06.21  天氣:  心情:
台灣社會趨勢向來會跟隨著日本,這篇報導大意是說,日本30到39歲男子有四分之一還是處男。一部份的原因,女生過度追求理想化對象,男生追求女生比以往更困難,另一點,向來東方社會女生過度被動去"主動追求心儀男性",因此,追求二字變成很單向性,尤其,在這資訊發達的社會,受戲劇影響,男女對對像的條件投射過高。以及,職場的環境變化,使得交友空間變小。所以呢,個人建議,相信直覺,多花幾句話的時間去了解你/妳覺得可以的對象,別高估自己,說不定自己想憑著過度修圖的美貌,而本身並不沒有料也會被人覺得言語無味被打槍,每個人並不如自己想像中的完美。


A study shows that 25% of Japanese men between the ages of 30-39 have yet to pop their cherry.


TOKYO — A 2010 survey by the National Institute of Population and Social Security Research has shown that 25% of middle-aged men between the ages of 30-39 were still virgins. In fact, there’s such a population of them that a specific term has been coined for them in Japanese -- ‘yaramiso’.

And the numbers only seem to be on the rise when compared to similar earlier studies.

Some are blaming Japan’s flagging economy as men are struggling to find secure full-time jobs, making them more eligible on the marriage market. Others blame the lack of education about how to build healthy relationships and how to approach women.

Yet social pressure to pop their cherries also cripples virginal men and the pressure only gets worse year after year.

One such 40-year-old virgin, Mr. Sakatsume, runs a non-profit group White Hands. The group aims to help disabled individuals find an outlet for their sexual needs and has recently begun catering to able-bodied individuals whose attitudes towards sex is a barrier holding them back.

White Hands now offers lectures on how to find a partner and how to establish an emotional and physical relationship.
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