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篇名: 改善人際互動的技巧
作者: Daniel 1975 日期: 2019.06.02  天氣:  心情:
人際互動技巧很重要,所以在聚會時我會試著改善這些技巧。
然而,我發現要達到我的目標並不是一件容易的事。
在對談之中,大部分時間我都保持沉默,無法發言加入對談。
主要的原因是我缺乏相關的經驗以及知識,
因此,我無法知道我要說些什麼。
第二個原因是我無法找出一個大家都感興趣的話題,
以便像點然火花般地開啟另一輪的對談。

雖然要達到改善人際互動技巧的目標並不容易,我從不放棄。
我會積極主動地參加各式各樣的聚會。
在一開始的時候,我必須當傾聽者,試著獲取找話來說的知識,
好讓我可以輕鬆自在地加入一場對談。
此外,我應該試著改善找出話題以開啟對談的技巧,
讓人們可以擁有一場令人感覺愉快的對談。
如果我有能力創造令人感覺愉快的對談,
我人際互動的技巧將會得到改善,讓人們樂於接近我。

如果我能夠讓人們樂於接近我,我比較有可能說服他們,
好讓他們信服於環保愛地球所能帶來的利益。
如果環保愛地球的人只是少數,這些利益不會被感受到。
只在在環保愛地球的人成為多數時,
我們才能讓舒適環境與永續發展的利益具體實現^_^

Improving the Skills of Interpersonal Interactions

The skills of interpersonal interactions are very crucial, so I try to improve these skills when I attend a gathering. Nevertheless, I find my goal is not easy to reach. During a conversation with others, most of the time I keep silent, unable to say something to join in the conversation. The primary reason is that I lack relevant experiences and knowledge, so I cannot know what to say. The second reason is that I cannot find a topic that most people would be interested in to ignite another round of conversation.

Although to reach the goal of improving my skills of interpersonal interactions is not easy, I would never give up. I would proactively join in all kinds of gatherings. In the beginning, I have to be listeners, trying to get the knowledge for me to find something to say, so that I could join in a conversation with ease. On top of that, I should try to improve the skill to find a topic to start a conversation and make people have a delightful conversation. If I have the competence to create delightful conversations, my skills of interpersonal interactions could get improved, making people feel pleased to approach me.

If I can make people feel pleased to approach me, I am more likely to convince them of the benefits of protecting the environment and loving the earth. If people protecting the environment and loving the earth are only in the minority, the benefits would not be felt. Only when people protecting the environment and loving the earth are in the majority, could we make the benefits of cozy environment and sustainable development become a reality^_^
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