一位朋友傳來的，值得深思的一段話:
教會播放一位著名的婚姻專家的一段簡短的演講, 主題是”Soul Mates and Selfishness”
有個觀點很有意思, 我結錄一段講詞,
“I’m suggesting that the problem is that we don’t understand the dynamics of true love. We think we do. Our songs, movies, romantic novels, and TV shows all echo the belief that true love will always appear when we meet the right person, our destined soul mate. And this love will hit us hard out of the blue—an idea charged with mystery and romance. So the search for romantic love continues to occupy the minds of people, even those who are married! The result. High divorce rates and a plummeting marital happiness index.
The truth is a successful marriage is not the result of marrying the “right” person, feeling the “right” emotions, thinking the “right” thoughts, or even praying the “right” prayers. It’s about doing the “right” things—period.”
“人們找尋的靈魂伴侶,是基於我們的歌曲，電影，浪漫的小說的信念, 但這個感覺對的人, 是不會導致幸福的婚姻"
"事實上, 一個成功的婚姻, 不是來自和 感覺上,情緒上,思想上對的人結婚,
而是和有正確婚姻觀念，對婚姻有正經營想法的人結婚"
對於想要進入婚姻的人，這個觀念一定要有!!
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