教會播放一位著名的婚姻專家的一段簡短的演講, 主題是”Soul Mates and Selfishness”
有個觀點很有意思, 我結錄一段講詞,
“I’m suggesting that the problem is that we don’t understand the dynamics of true love. We think we do. Our songs, movies, romantic novels, and TV shows all echo the belief that true love will always appear when we meet the right person, our destined soul mate. And this love will hit us hard out of the blue—an idea charged with mystery and romance. So the search for romantic love continues to occupy the minds of people, even those who are married! The result. High divorce rates and a plummeting marital happiness index.
The truth is a successful marriage is not the result of marrying the “right” person, feeling the “right” emotions, thinking the “right” thoughts, or even praying the “right” prayers. It’s about doing the “right” things—period.”
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