Recently, I saw a piece of news saying a famous singer 張清芳divorced her very rich husband. Many people think to be married into a rich family is good for her. However, she said it was not as good as what people thought. She had to get up at six or five o’clock, be busy with housework, and went to bed after eleven o’clock. Maybe she was tired of this way of life, so she decided to get her freedom. Some people said her husband was a strict person and demanded a lot of things to be kept in good order. She could not take it, so she decided to end her marriage.
Divorce might be good for both of them, but it could be bad for their children. They are forced to be separated form one of their parents. They could be missing one of their parents day and night and feel unhappy.
Therefore, thinking clearly before getting married is very significant. The important things we have to consider before getting married are a lot. The following are some of them, the compatibility of personalities and living styles of both sides, whether the wife lives with her parents-in-law, and how to raise their children.
I am a strict person, and could be more strict than the husband of 張清芳。I think staying healthy is very important, but quite a large amount of people think indulging sensual desires is very important. Only for this point, it has been very difficult for me to find a right person. Nevertheless, I prefer to think clearly before getting married and making a lot of efforts to search for my Miss Right.