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篇名: 想清楚再結婚
作者: Daniel 1975 日期: 2020.07.05  天氣:  心情:
最近,我看到了一則新聞,
知名歌手張清芳與他非常富有的老公離婚了。
很多人認為嫁入豪門對她而言是好事,
但她說事情並沒有如一般人所想像的那般美好。
她必須在早上五點或六點起床,
為家務而繁忙,十一點過後才能上床睡覺。
也許她因這種生活方式感到疲累,所以決定得到自由。
有些人說她的老公是一個嚴格的人,
很多事情都要求要做得井然有序才行,
她無法忍受,所是決定要結束她的婚姻。

離婚有可能對他們雙方都好,但有可能對他們的子女不好。
他們被迫要與父母的其中一人分離,
他們有可能每天每夜思念他們父母的其中一人而感到不快樂。

因此,想清楚再結婚是很重要的。
結婚之前要考慮好的事情有很多,以下是其中幾點:
雙方的個性及生活方式是否相容,
妻子是否與公婆同住,以及如何養育他們的子女。

我是一個嚴格的人,可能比張清芳的老公還嚴格。
我認為保持身體健康很重要,
但絕大多數的人認為放縱感官慾望很重要。
光是這一點,我就很難找到對的人,
但我寧願想清楚再結婚,付出很多努力來尋覓我的白雪公主。


Thinking Clearly Before Getting Married

Recently, I saw a piece of news saying a famous singer 張清芳divorced her very rich husband. Many people think to be married into a rich family is good for her. However, she said it was not as good as what people thought. She had to get up at six or five o’clock, be busy with housework, and went to bed after eleven o’clock. Maybe she was tired of this way of life, so she decided to get her freedom. Some people said her husband was a strict person and demanded a lot of things to be kept in good order. She could not take it, so she decided to end her marriage.

Divorce might be good for both of them, but it could be bad for their children. They are forced to be separated form one of their parents. They could be missing one of their parents day and night and feel unhappy.

Therefore, thinking clearly before getting married is very significant. The important things we have to consider before getting married are a lot. The following are some of them, the compatibility of personalities and living styles of both sides, whether the wife lives with her parents-in-law, and how to raise their children.

I am a strict person, and could be more strict than the husband of 張清芳。I think staying healthy is very important, but quite a large amount of people think indulging sensual desires is very important. Only for this point, it has been very difficult for me to find a right person. Nevertheless, I prefer to think clearly before getting married and making a lot of efforts to search for my Miss Right.
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